please STOP obsessing over your weight. I’m so sick of girls who are 110 pounds and calling themselves fat and saying they will never get a boyfriend. If a boy won’t date you because of your weight, he isn’t a boy you want to date anyway. Yes, men are attracted to you physically first, but it’s your heart they should fall in love with. If he is so shallow that your weight is a deal breaker, MOVE ON. The vast majority of girls who say they are fat aren’t. So stop degrading yourself. I have struggled with my weight for years and no I’m not happy with where I am now. It’s a constant battle, but it’s something I work at. I eat healthy and try to work out often. It’s not easy, but I’m not looking to “lose weight”. I’m looking to be healthy. If being healthy means losing pounds on the scale, fine. Don’t let a guy tell you how to be. Don’t let a shallow asshole determine how you feel about yourself. You are gorgeous and beautiful. To someone you are the world and will be the most beautiful person they’ve ever seen. Wait for that guy. This is not only a little vent session to ladies I overhear, but to myself. It’s something to keep in mind.

Love each of you.

xoxo,
J